- Elijah Lim:That's one of my issues. I need to become more acquainted with how people feel, in general. Thanks!
- Dave Gardner:Laugh out loud funny!
- Craig Martin:Very good, Alan. I think we all know a person or ten who could benefit from this message.
- Alan Weiss:I don't coach for free, Britt, but you'll find easy ways to do that in my books if you're interested.
- Jeffrey Summers:Took a couple more hoops but I was able to listen to it. I always love the fact, that no matter what the complexity
- Jeffrey Summers:I can access the list (they keep adding more interviews). It's just that I can't play anything. Maybe there's a delay on
- Alan Weiss:I probably copied a link incorrectly. I do things like that. But when I just pasted the link above into Safari, I came u
- Jeffrey Summers:Would love to listen to this but nothing happens. Did anyone else get to listen to this? Their link broken? iTunes issue
- Mohan:True! Life requires not always the same phase.It some times requires different velocity to see clearly the unexpecte
- Britt King:What's your process for getting in front of buyers while juggling current projects?
- Craig Martin:Which is 100 times faster than most call centres.
- Alan Weiss:I shall answer you in a millennium.
- Craig Martin:Having 3 teenage kids means my concept of time is totally different to the norm. For example: If asked to tidy a room,
- Igor Skapinker:Which content? But seriously, it is amaizing that regardless of hundreds of times that Alan pointed that out, there a
- Alan Weiss:Steve, I'm sure my eduction is lacking and inferior to yours, so thanks for pointing out that there are 52 weeks in a ye
- Noah:I wonder how much does Steve earns for pointing out every typo or slight mistake on the Internet? Glad I chose consul
- Steve Kravitz:We must have had different math teachers, or were raised in places where years have different durations. Where I co
- Simma:That was one of the most valuable tips I learned when I attended my first workshop with you. Had I not learned your 80%
- Alan Weiss:There are a lot of ways to meet people, I do so every day. But sacrificing your health and comfort by traveling coach ma
- Gemma Laming:I guess I just prefer travelling that way! When I was a kid, we'd sleep in the gangways by the emergency exits, lots
- Alan Weiss:Same with palming the ball.
- Dave Gardner:I'm glad you mentioned traveling in basketball...when I watch basketball, it's as though the rules I learned when I was
- Alan Weiss:Exactly, that's why the stuff about preventing injury (and I'm talking about the majors, not Little League) is specious,
- Jeffrey Summers:...and then there's the play at the plate!
- Alan Weiss:First thanks for reading my stuff. Second, I don't agree with you at all, and you're one of the people lowering the stan
- Steven B. Levy:The "phantom" double-play at 2B isn't sloppiness or lowered standards but a reasoned, intentional approach by umpires (i
- Alan Weiss:You can meet people easily anywhere, so I don't think you need to be totally uncomfortable for 12 hours with the pretens
- Gemma Laming:Wherever I'm going, it's coach class. I just like the rough and tumble of being with people. There's something about Asi
- Alex Singleton:You make a sound point. There are inevitably typos on my blog because I bash out posts and don't use a proof-reader or a
- Alan Weiss:I tried to make them listen. They were polite, but not very responsive. The assistant hotel manager told me, "I hope you
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It’s Not Your Mother’s Fault: Vol. 1 Issue 3
We get a truckload of Christmas cards, which is wonderful. Many are sent by people from early in our marriage who stay in touch via an exchange of cards. Some people have a tradition of inserting a “family letter” detailing the past year, as if we should be catching up on episodes we’ve missed of Breaking Bad or Dexter. (The last time I printed such a sentiment, some people were incensed that I wouldn’t appreciate these exegeses. I expect the same backlash now!)
I find these epistles to be interesting only to the sender and usually merely read the card, but my wife insists that these are effective missives to “catch up” with acquaintances, though I’ve seen her eyes glaze over in the middle or reading of a fourth cousin’s marriage to a deputy assistant librarian in Raleigh who once met the hairdresser for one of Rihanna’s backup singers.
However, I have noticed something of interest in these Pauline letters (“The second letter of St. Paul to the Weisses,” if you follow the Gospels): Most are filled with accomplishments and pride, and occasionally the unfortunate loss of loved ones, or the status of those in the military. But some are unremitting in their unrelenting expostulation of misfortune, calamity, and setback. They make Job seem well off by comparison (and, in fact, one writer this year, ignoring hubris, cited Job as having nothing on him).
A single letter writer (often electronically, sort of the antithesis of the personal holiday greeting) will go on about lost opportunities, illnesses, natural disaster—everything short of locusts, though I don’t read all the letters carefully, so who knows? I’m reminded of Al Capp’s famous “Li’l Abner” character, Joe Btfsplk, who had a perpetual black cloud over his head, carrying the world’s worst jinx.
Why are you sending others your litany of miseries? Surely all of us have our stories, our losses, our grievous wounds. Some have suffered deaths and horrible illnesses. Why are you so special as to have to broadcast your every bad hair day, hiccup, and unfair traffic ticket to the rest of us?
I know this sounds harsh, but share tragedy, much less minor misfortune, with your family and those who are close friends. Share with others some happiness, some optimism, some uplift. Your fourth cousin’s wedding is preferable to my learning that someone vandalized your car.
Some issues are meant to share, some you have to bear. Your mother probably told you to “grow up” and “stop crying” and “you’ll have to accept it.” She was right. What happens to you isn’t her fault, much less mine. We all have to deal with adversity.
But as my mother said: “Better to spread some joy. Would it kill you?”
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I never give financial advice and I don’t pretend to be a financial expert. But I have worked with thousands of solo practitioners and firm owners, and I have learned from my own mistakes. So here are some New Year’s suggestions for a healthy financial regimen.
1. Pay yourself first. Set up a new business account separate from your regular personal and professional accounts. Transfer 10% (choose your own percentage) of EVERY dollar you collect in 2012 into that account. If you close a $150,000 project, transfer $15,000. If you sell $200 worth of products, transfer $20. Try not to touch it except in emergencies (a new car is not an emergency).
2. Fund your retirement plans during the year to their maximums through installments. Figure out what you can contribute to SEP IRAs, IRAs, 401Ks, or whatever else you’re created, and contribute as you go through the year. (Example: If you are confident your personal income will be $160,000 or greater, you can contribute a maximum of 25%, $40,000, to a SEP IRA—and more if you’re over a certain age. That means you should start contributing about $3,000 a month, and try to pay it in the 2012 calendar year, even though you have until April of the following year.)
3. Make a plan to payoff credit card balances the same way. Every month, pay ALL the new charges and then pay at least one-twelfth of the remaining balance. This will decrease interest payments, improve your credit score, and free up credit if you need it in an emergency in the future.
4. Make plans to maximize your TOP LINE revenue. No one grows through cutting expenses. Doing your own monthly financials on software programs instead of hiring a bookkeeper for $250 a month is just ridiculous. Focus on truly growing your business and start thinking BIG.
5. Create “budgets” that you fund for key, planned expenditures: school costs, vacations, house improvements, and so on. Try to fund these monthly, as well. It actually helps to keep them in different accounts.
6. Monitor your spending. There are sites such as Mint.com and apps such as Pageonce Pro than can help if you’d like an automated system that notifies you of bills due, spending deviations, bank charges, and so forth. While I don’t believe in cutting to grow, I have found that some people don’t realize where and how their money is actually being spent.
7. Pay forward. By that I mean this: When you incur a major credit card debt (e.g., you’ve run a meeting, taken in all the revenue, but the hotel balance is $20,000) start writing checks immediately. If you wrote a $10,000 check at the time to, say, Amex, and then the balance when the actual bill arrived, it’s less of a bite and less chance that you’d spend that first $10,000 elsewhere. Better still: If you can, hold revenues from future events in an escrow account and pay the hotel bill at one time from there. (These are also very important if you are forced to cancel and repay all money already received.)
8. Delegate everything you can. Stop doing your own graphics design, slides, software fixes, bookkeeping, taxes, printing, travel reservations, product fulfillment, and so forth. Have others do it, because the money you spend is paid back one-hundred-fold in free time to devote to marketing and raising your top line. (Do you want YOUR clients doing things themselves that you should be hired to do and you can do faster and better than they?)
9. Don’t “play” the market. Put your long-term investments in the care of professionals. Ask for referrals and references from people who are successful to find the financial advisors who are best for your situation and philosophy. Never accept financial advice from anyone who is also selling a product (insurance, securities, and so on), because their product will always be the “answer.” Just pay for advice or the management fee. Remember that the idea in life is not to make money, but to create value and help people. As George Merck said, “Do good and good will follow.”
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The Thinker or The Prayer? Captured by Guido Quelle on the shores of an island in Lago Maggiore, Stresa, Italy.Print This Post
December 27, 2011—Issue #118
This week’s focus point: In the U.S., housing has bottomed out and shows small improvements. Retail sales are up four percent from last year’s holiday period, surpassing projections. The market is over 12,000 as I write this. Unemployment is marginally reduced. The Europeans seem to be figuring out how to shore up the euro and avoid national defaults. These events don’t represent radical improvement, perhaps, but they do represent progress. You’d never know from most media outlets. Beware of people paid to be cynics, promoted for skepticism, mavens of catastrophe. Unsurprisingly, they become quite good at it and incapable of seeing or reporting anything else.
Monday Morning Perspective: Justice, I think is the tolerable accommodation of the conflicting interests of society, and I don’t believe there is any royal road to attain such accommodations concretely. — Justice Learned Hand
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Here’s a recent blog post, I’m told from the Harvard Business Review, sent to me by Alden Ulrich:
Skip the Mr. and Mrs.
Adapted from “What’s in a (First) Name” by Jodi Glickman.
If you’re what the writer calls a “junior employee” I’d be a tad careful before calling a senior vice president “Joe” or the general counsel “Katey.” It doesn’t level the playing field, especially in hierarchically staid organizations, but it can brand you as abrasive and pretentious rather quickly.
No one ever got in trouble by showing too much respect. Someone who’s clearly a peer can use your first name. Socially, who cares? (Although I still encounter pompous doctors being introduced at a fund raiser or dinner as “Dr. Johnson,” rather than “Mary Johnson.”) If you’re calling out of the blue and want a favor from me or, heaven forfend, cold calling, once you begin with, “Alan, how are you?” and I don’t know you, you’re pretty much finished.
This is especially true with senior people at clients. They’ll usually say, “Call me Harry,” but give them that option. The problem is, apparently, we’re all forgetting too much of what our parents told us and reading too much of the Harvard Business Review blog.
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